Başkasını Hoş Kendimizi Boş Görelim!
Başkasını hoş kendimizi boş görelim.
Herkesi hoş kendimizi boş görmek nefsimizin işine gelmiyor değil mi?
Kendi kusur ve hatalarımızla meşgul olmaya , başkalarının ayıplarını örtmeye
çalışmalıyız.
Böylece nefsimizi haksız çıkarmış oluruz.
Çünkü en büyük haksızlığı yapan nefsimizdir.
Hesaba çıktığımız zaman falanca şu günahı niçin işledi diye sormayacaklar.
Sen bu günahla niçin geldin diye soracaklar.
Hiç kimseye gülünmez, hiç kimse ayıplanmaz.
Kimi ki ayıplarsak bir de dönüp baktığımızda bütün ayıpların kendimizde olduğunu ibretle görürüz.
Kimisi bir yerden. kimisi başka yerden kaymış fakat bizim kaydığımız nokta belki onlardan büyüktür.
Onun için hiç kimseyi ayıplamaya gelmez açıkmış saçıkmış sarhoşmuş hayır, hayır.
Herkes icraatını yapacak ve kendi ameli ile kabrine gömülecek.
Biz nefsimizle mücadele etmeye devam edeceğiz böyle şeylerle meşgul olmayacağız.
Bizim ayıbımız bize yeter başkasının ayıbını görmeye bile vaktimiz olmamalı.
Onun ayıbı onun olsun gıybet yapıp bir ayıp da biz işlemeyelim günaha girmeyelim.
Biz herkesi hoş kendimizi boş görelim.
Omuzumuza bir heybe asalım iki (ağızlı torba) iyiliklerimizi arka gözüne, kötülüklerimizi de ön gözüne koyalım.
Böylece yaptığımız günahları gördüğümüz zaman başkalarını ayıplayamayız.
Her zaman başkalarının faziletleriyle meşgul olalım.
Kendi günahlarımızı göz önünde bulundurmakla da ömrümüz boyunca tevbe
ve istiğfarı elden bırakmamış hiç kimseyi de hor ve hakir görmemiş oluruz.
HZ. ALLAH (c.c) cümlemizi kibirli kullardan eylemesin. Amin.
Sözler ve notlardan,
Hatemi veli Hz.
Ömer Öngüt Efendi.
Let's see ourselves as nice to others.
It doesn't work for our souls to see everyone nice and empty, right?
To be busy with our own faults and mistakes, to cover up the faults of others.
We must work.
Thus, we will prove our nafs wrong.
Because it is our ego that does the greatest injustice.
When we come to the account, they will not ask why such and such a person committed this sin.
They will ask why you came with this sin.
No one is laughed at, no one is blamed.
Whoever we blame, when we look back, we see that all the faults are in ourselves.
Some from somewhere. Some of them have slipped from elsewhere, but the point where we slipped is perhaps greater than them.
He doesn't blame anyone for that, he's open, he's dirty, he's drunk, no, no.
Everyone will do their work and will be buried in their graves with their own deeds.
We will continue to struggle with our nafs and not engage in such things.
Our shame is enough for us, we should not even have time to see the shame of others.
Let his fault be his, let's backbite and not commit a shame, let's not sin.
Let's welcome everyone and see ourselves empty.
Let's hang a saddlebag on our shoulders and put our good deeds in the back eye and our bad deeds in the front eyes.
Thus, when we see the sins we have committed, we cannot blame others.
Let us always be preoccupied with the virtues of others.
Repentance throughout our lives by considering our own sins
And we will not despise and despise anyone who does not give up on asking forgiveness.
HZ. May Allah (swt) not make our sentence one of the arrogant servants. Amine.
From words and notes,
Hatemi veli Hz.
Ömer Öngüt Efendi.
It doesn't work for our souls to see everyone nice and empty, right?
To be busy with our own faults and mistakes, to cover up the faults of others.
We must work.
Thus, we will prove our nafs wrong.
Because it is our ego that does the greatest injustice.
When we come to the account, they will not ask why such and such a person committed this sin.
They will ask why you came with this sin.
No one is laughed at, no one is blamed.
Whoever we blame, when we look back, we see that all the faults are in ourselves.
Some from somewhere. Some of them have slipped from elsewhere, but the point where we slipped is perhaps greater than them.
He doesn't blame anyone for that, he's open, he's dirty, he's drunk, no, no.
Everyone will do their work and will be buried in their graves with their own deeds.
We will continue to struggle with our nafs and not engage in such things.
Our shame is enough for us, we should not even have time to see the shame of others.
Let his fault be his, let's backbite and not commit a shame, let's not sin.
Let's welcome everyone and see ourselves empty.
Let's hang a saddlebag on our shoulders and put our good deeds in the back eye and our bad deeds in the front eyes.
Thus, when we see the sins we have committed, we cannot blame others.
Let us always be preoccupied with the virtues of others.
Repentance throughout our lives by considering our own sins
And we will not despise and despise anyone who does not give up on asking forgiveness.
HZ. May Allah (swt) not make our sentence one of the arrogant servants. Amine.
From words and notes,
Hatemi veli Hz.
Ömer Öngüt Efendi.